Perhaps you have said or heard someone say, “Well that’s reality as I see it,” or “Perception is reality,” or “I make my own reality.”All of these common expressions reflect the idea that I as a finite being am able to adequately assess what is real and true or that I am able to actual create my own reality. But, experience shows that these ideas are naïve and even false. We are often shocked to see how truly out-of-control our lives are when things happen to us, and our perceptions are often way off base.The sharpest wakeup call of reality is death, which we are constantly ...